This blog is called Tales From the Thrift Shop, so I figured it was time to, well, share some of my personal shares from the thrift shop. This week was all about finding an outfit for an upcoming bachelorette party. When I say upcoming, I mean that it’s happening on Saturday. Last-minute, I know. I couldn’t find quite the right outfit for me, so I decided to keep looking at the thrift store instead of settling.
On the first trip to the thrift store, I found pretty much nothing. It was still mid-August, so the thrift store was still stocked with tank tops and summer dresses. The bachelorette party was in September, so I wanted to make sure my look was fall-appropriate — just in case the weather did decide to drop for our night out. I left that trip empty. Well, I did snag myself some cute new cotton napkins for my kitchen, hehe.
The next few trips happened in a blur. I’d run in when I had a free minute, look through the dress section, and then run out. I didn’t find anything on those trips, but I figured that a quick trip was better than nothing. At that point, my main goal was to figure out when the fall items would be stocked.
Then, September hit. The first day of the month came, and it was like all the leaves had magically changed colors. The thrift store’s tank top section had magically turned to sweaters. It was the moment that I had finally been waiting for. The dress section got a re-vamp too. There was now heavier fabrics, dresses with sleeves, and darker colors popping up everywhere. While there still weren’t a ton of items that I deemed “going out worthy,” I found a few that I thought could be winners and hit the fitting room.
The first dress I found had thing, black and white diagonal stripes. It had two layers of dress. One was a thin, sheer layer with the print, and the other was a black silk layer underneath. I liked it but didn’t love it.
Dress number two was a little more promising. It was a lace spaghetti-strapped dress that screamed, “let’s party.” It fit me just right, and I planned to put a leather jacket over it and be ready for fall. I didn’t know what shoes I would wear with it, but I added it to my cart anyway and decided that it would have to do.
The dress was perfect for a bachelorette party, but not perfect for me.
When I looked at the dress, I could tell it was meant to be worn to a bachelorette party. That’s why I decided to put it in my cart. I also knew that there was a good chance that I would never wear the dress again; 1. Black just isn’t my color, 2. the lace isn’t the most practical, and 3. I was showing a little more skin than I typically opt for. It might have only been $6, but, personally, I don’t see a point in buying an outfit just to wear it once. That goes for special occasion outfits, sweaters, and everything between. I want to invest in pieces that feel like me. Pieces that I want to grab when I’m getting ready in the morning. Not just pieces that work for one night.
Simply put, I will never buy an outfit just to wear it once. No ifs, ands, or buts about it.
While I’m saying all of this, I also have to be honest about what was going through my head at the moment that I was shopping — “I’ll stick this in my cart, just in case I can’t find anything else.” Thankfully, I did.
Honestly, I didn’t mean to find the outfit that I did. I was walking around, trying to kill time while my mom was still in the fitting room. The skirt section was right next to the fitting rooms, so I mosied over there. As I was sifting through, I saw a long black skirt. The material felt nice in my hands and the asymmetrical buttons had me sold from the moment I saw it. I grabbed it and put it in my cart. Then, as I was walking back to the fitting room, I noticed a top in my ideal shade of brown. It was off-the-shoulders, had tied sleeves, and was 100% cotton. SOLD.
I got to the fitting room that my mom was at and decided to throw the two items on together, just to kill time. And wouldn’t you know, they ended up looking absolutely perfect together. The skirt had an unnoticed slit in the front that ended up making it the perfect going out look. That, mixed with the amount of shoulder that was showing from the off-the-shoulder top made it the perfect amount of skin showing. I was comfortable and knew that I’d wear the items again. I decided right then and there to ditch the lace dress and opt for the skirt-top combo.
The top and the skirt rang in at $4 each.
That’s $8 for an outfit that I will wear not only to the bachelorette party but all throughout the holiday season. I can see the skirt matching with sweaters over it, tank tops under it, and jackets over top of it. I already know that I’ll be wearing the top to Thanksgiving this year too. So, yes, it was a great $8 investment.
This is what I mean when I say to make every purchase count. It might take some patience — trust me, it took me a while to learn too — but it’s almost always worth the wait. It’s like there are thrift gods out there looking out for you every time, as long as you wait for it. But, all jokes aside, it’s worth it to feel confident in what you’re buying.
Oh, and you’ll likely see this on the ‘gram multiple times — no shame here. Major Kim K vibes, am I right?